Sunday, March 14, 2010

(50) Sundays of Music: #42

#42: Taking Back Sunday - New Again


Much like having a Coldplay cd at #47, I'm sure it may be a little surprising that a TBS entry is so far early. Well, let's get the bad out of the way. There are a few tracks that are forgettable and you can hear the new direction without the dual vocals with Fred Mascherino out of the band (however, I'm not 100% against the new sound, but more on that later). Personally, one of the tracks I still skip over for the most part, "Capital M-E" which is a direct shot at Fred. I just don't really like "drama songs" in general, but when it's my favorite band I just wish they would have taken the high road.

But this cd made the countdown for a reason, I didn't just put them there because of who they are. Let's see why.

As much as their sound has changed, I like it. Maybe I came at just the right time, but I feel I am growing with Taking Back Sunday. I would actually be put off if I heard songs like they were still in high school because I'm not, and neither are they. This cd was definitely a step in the direction of them becoming more of a rock band and less of an emo band. And I like this type of stuff. The other day I put this cd on while I was cleaning my room and listened to the whole thing because I was jammin out.

Some of the "good, but not great" tracks include include the title track, the first single "Sink Into Me," and what seems to be a lot of people's favorite "Summer, Man" which I also kind of don't like because there are a couple of lines in there that also take a shot at Fred. But even in these songs there are some amazing lyrics: "I'd like to be a note / The kind / You could sing but don't because you're shy / That way I'd live inside your throat / ...and hang from every word you spoke." Their second radio single "Where My Mouth Is" is a good slow track for them and this time I appreciate him being heartfelt as he sings "Where I lost not one, but two friends" referring to his early music feuds. Unlike songs like "Capital M-E" he is just baring his soul, not trash talking. I can't emphasize it enough, I could have done without that song haha.

But what shines here are when the band just go all out. My favorite tracks are "Lonely, Lonely" "Catholic Knees" "Cut Me Up Jenny" "Carpathia" and "Everything Must Go." Whenever "Lonely, Lonely" would come on in my car, I would just about blow my speaker system. The other songs are great and read like poetry, but "Everything Must Go" is the track that shines. Now, I am going to sound contradictory because this song is basically a huge F U to his ex, but it came at a time in my life when I could really relate to it. Plus, I have seen him perform it live twice and you can tell it is a song that he put a lot of emotions into.

So this cd, though mixed, deserves a spot on the top 50. And here a few songs that got it there.

**Editor's Note: Actually, youtube is sucking for these songs. They are there, but the voice sounds distorted and I can't do that injustice. So check out the cd, it is pretty good. But till then, check out this:

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Wordless Wednesday: (Some) Celebrity Crushes

Zooey Deschanel

Amy Adams

Mila Kunis

Anne Hathaway

Scarlett Johansson

And since the overwhelming majority of my followers are female, here are a few of my man crushes

As defined by urbandictionary.com:


"When a straight man has a "crush" on another man, not sexual but kind of idolizing him.

Many straight men end up having man crushes on Johnny Depp (I don't blame them)."

Johnny Depp (obviously)

Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson

Anthony Kiedis

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Sunday, March 7, 2010

(50) Sundays of Music: #43

#43: The Offspring - Greatest Hits


2005 was a unique year for the relationship between myself and music. One of the most significant moments came at the Sacramento stop of that summer's Warped Tour. In what would seem absurd today, All American Rejects and Fall Out Boy were two of the headliners while other bands on the rise such as Senses Fail, Hawthorne Heights and My Chemical Romance were there as well. But a moment I will never forget came when I realized The Offspring were a headliner and I got excited but my brothers could care less. I guess four years between us in age really makes a difference. After FOB finished their set we left, and I never got the chance to see The Offspring live.

I'm not sure when their greatest hits cd came out (and yea, I know a compilation cd is kinda cheating, but it's my countdown so I'm allowed to cheat), but I got it somewhere around my freshman year in college. I had only ever bought one cd by them, Americana. I don't remember liking the cd as a whole, but "The Kids Aren't Alright" is still one of my favorite songs by any artist to this day. And yea, I bought that cd because of "Pretty Fly (For A White Guy)." What can I say, I was a product of the times.

A band like The Offspring is perfect for greatest hits releases. I don't know if I would like to stack up on their records, but when their songs come on the radio it's great to sing along. So that's what I'm about to do as I find some songs to showcase here









Thursday, March 4, 2010

I Want to Win/More Reflections

So I'm really late to the party, but I've had a hectic week. You can relate right?

But there is a giveaway going on that ends TOMORROW and you need to do your damndest to get over there and enter. Where you ask? Right here. Get this.... THREE winners and a bunch of random shit, along with some surprises. Head on over to see Smart Ass Sara and tell her Mr O sent you.

Random thoughts before I get into this post:

*We are four episodes away from finishing Heroes but my sister and her husband want to stretch it out. I don't know if I can do one episode a week...

*Speaking of TV, I watched the first episode of the new show Spartacus. If you are my facebook friend you already saw this but my mini review is that it seems some people were like "Let's put Troy, Gladiator, 300 and softcore porn into a pot, stir it up, get some cheesy actors and cheap graphics." You would think I didn't like it, and while I wasn't wowed, I am going to watch the next episode at least.

*Speaking of reviews, I have been slacking on my movie blog. What's crazy is I have at least ten movies to talk about (after this weekend, you can add Alice in Wonderland to the list). But I vow to get it going, so if you haven't started following, you should do that.

*Lastly, after a conversation with jeanette around new year's, I realized I needed to read more. So I looked at my autobiography of Red Hot Chili Pepper's frontman Anthony Keidis, "Scar Tissue," that I had bought but never read. I've read a little bit everyday and I am halfway through. It's amazing.

Let's get to the story.

It was my freshman year in college and I had just wrapped up my third final out of the four I had in the semester. This was on a Saturday (yea, we had a final on Saturday morning) and my next final wasn't until Monday. So I wanted to get out. I asked Hedman if he felt like driving so we came up with a plan to surprise our friends, Myke and Ace Baisa (who we just call "The Baisas" haha). They go to our rival school, the University of Alabama, in Tuscaloosa. It's a little over a two hour drive from Auburn so we sneakily got confirmation that they were there and then we were off.

I lay out the details in the video, but I mumble. Basically my mom put some money in my account as a birthday present so I used that for gas money and we videotaped the walk to the door because they didn't know we were coming. There is some hesitation because we aren't sure what house it is, so bare with that, because their reaction to us randomly showing up was great.





After hanging out for a little while, we decided to go to the mall. And that's when this great picture was taken:


Good times.

Random lyric of the day:

Take me out tonight
take me anywhere, I don't care
I don't care, I don't care
and in the darkened underpass
I thought Oh God, my chance has come at last
but then a strange fear gripped me
and I just couldn't ask

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Wordless Wednesday: Band of Brothers

*I promise you guys, these are my legit brothers. We just have different dads...

**I thought I had some from when we were little. But I guess they've disappeared :(

***We live in different states (them = Cali, me = Bama) so that's why I have so few pics

My spring break, 2006

Greeting me at the airport after my HS graduation, 2005

Thanksgiving, 2007

Sacramento stop of Warped Tour, 2005

Jammin out when I stopped in Modesto during our cross country road trip, 2009

Raging Waters in LA, 2005

Their graduation (they are twins), 2008


Monday, March 1, 2010

I Should Be Studying

I've gotten some new followers lately and I would like to say thanks to all of you. And also I'm sorry. This isn't my usual kind of post, so please bare with me.

(sidenote: I am horrible at following wordpress blogs. I usually just see what's in my blogger dashboard and forget to check my reader. I lost a good follower by not paying attention to her because she had a wordpress account and I kept forgettin to check it...)

Anyways, I'm at a weird point right now. Some things are making me really excited, like the fact that March is here and that is bringing two concerts that I just found out I am going to this weekend (Envy on the Coast, Pendulum), Wrestlemania, Spring Break and of course Alice in Wonderland on Friday.

But I feel like that is all I'm looking forward to and when I'm not looking forward to these things, then other things just aren't that great right now. I'm sure a couple of readers can relate to this (in fact, I know some can) but school is starting to come down on me. And I am the kind of guy that waits till the last minute. And sometimes I just feel defeated. Like right now. I have two classes that I feel really good about and two that I am like "why the hell did I sign up for this?" I just want to graduate. But even that is bringing it's own problems. Sort of.

I have to decide where I want to intern. I've sent out applications and such, but right now it's looking like it's going to come down to three places: South Dakota, Montgomery or staying right here in Auburn. Now, those become "choices" only if I get accepted. But we will see...

I think what's been getting to me is that people have been bailing on me lately. Like, it's starting to become a pattern. To the point where my over-analyzing self is questioning if it's just a random set of coincidence or is there something about me that makes it easy for people to bail.

Sometimes I just feel that nice guy complex. Like that I am too nice. But truth be told, I don't really have an asshole bone in my body. By the way, if you guessed that I am not only talking about friendships but relationships as well, you would be right. I guess it's got to the point where I have been single for a good while now. And at the sake of getting "all emo up in here" I've honestly kind of gotten a little bit lonely. But again, I'm at that weird position where I am also not actively seeking anything because I don't know where I am going to be in a matter of months and don't want to end up in anything complicated.

Some days I am just thankful for my friends. And I'm talking about the real friends, the ones you can count on your hand. What I hate is that most of them are spread out and on days I break down and just send simple texts stating: "I wish we lived closer." But then I am thankful that Frisco has been right here by my side since day one of our freshman year. We talked today about how "the end" may come in May, may come in August. It's going to be a sad, sad day.

Really, I have no idea what this post is supposed to be about. I just started typing. I feel I have been slacking on commenting on blogs lately but as you can see I have a few things rolling around in my head and I'm just trying to make sense of it all.

What's crazy is that I will probably wake up tomorrow, stress about this test, take it and then come home and be in a great mood and think to myself "I shouldn't have posted this." But for now it seems like a good idea.

I made a commitment to myself that I am going to see Envy On The Coast on the 11th, even if I have to go alone (some friends can't make it, some said they will go but are kind of unreliable). And I really hope this time around they perform "Lapse," which is the RLOTD for this post, I guess making it not so random.

Random Lyric of the Day:

it's not as deep as it seems
and unfair as it may be
i'm just here to remind you
remind you not to forget to remember me

now i've died, you question so much
i don't possess the strength to answer straight
and no, i'm not afraid, at least not to die
i'm afraid to live and not remember why
sweet chemical indifference
i can't stop, can't change the evident

predisposed to perpetual sickness
i refuse to let you all be witness
make sure the needle is clean when you let me go back to sleep
and situate the piece of her picture underneath my fingers
it protects me in my dreams

it's not as deep as it seems
and unfair as it may be
i'm just here to remind you
remind you not to forget to remember me